Expectations

                    

                        Expectations are some of the many other reasons why there are lots of people not satisfy with their lives even if they almost have it all.

                      We sometimes tend to ignore some things that happen to our lives that will make us happy but since its not beyond our expectations we try to take it for granted not knowing that we almost miss half of our lives. We try to set those expectations and live with it as if everything will happen the way that you wanted to be but at the end of it all you end up with nothing and you regret why you didn’t take the chance to be happy and accept the faith that lies in you. The pain and the hurt resides in you whenever you didn’t  pursue your expectations and the worst of it all you are trying to pull yourself down and you feel that you are worthless.

 

                   Our life is too short and it’s very hard to pursue endless expectations in our lives. Let’s live our life to the fullest. If you think your expectations hinder you to be happy and to be satisfied well you need to get rid or lessen those expectation coz we only have one life. Simple life is the best choice….no expectation….no worries!!!!!!!Stay happy!

Add a comment July 11, 2009

Patience

 

               There are times that we really tend to get easily irritated and get annoyed to something that really makes our day the worst day ever. We get mad at somebody because he made something that is not within our expectations, without even knowing the reasons and the explanation why he didn’t make that promise. We usually consider our emotions first before merely understanding what would be the reason why they didn’t met your expectations. Then after a while you will end up saying that they ruined your day but the truth is you didn’t merely understand the real situation and you just didn’t hear them out.

 

           Sometimes in the middle of a relationship there will be times that there are still petty quarrels. The reason for it is simply because both parties don’t have the patience to understand all the indifferences that they have. They keep thinking about their own pride  and emotions. Indeed, if we really like to make our relationship last long we  should be  more patient with our better half because it really feels awesome if you don’t have anything to argue with.

             Moreover, being patient is one way to achieve a healthy relationship.

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       After all the things that we’ve made since then we always look for our better half. There are times when our hearts are too young to explain the meaning of love. We sometimes misunderstood it and thought that we already find the right love that we are looking for. However, when that magic starts to fade we end up kissing the wrong frog for him to be our prince.

          We think and tend to live in the fantasy world that we created because we know that we can do impossible things there. We overlook the imperfection of the frog prince that we almost ignore the true prince that is willing to love and give up everything just for your happiness. We cannot blame ourselves because whatever our status is everything can be a victim of this so called love. We are deceived by the magic of love that brought us. We stumble and fall but still we stand firm and try to forget the fantasy world and face the reality.

        Destiny will guide us all to our better half. We can turn the frog prince into real one so never give up on the quest of love. Now, if you find you’re real prince charming hold him tight never ever let him go because you only have once chance so you should have to cherished them and be grateful for having him into your life that makes you a real princess.

Add a comment July 7, 2009

Missing Voice

There are lots of things that I wanted to tell to everybody but I don’t have any voice for me to be able to express my feelings. I can’t blame anybody why is this happening to me and my faith is the thing that lives in me that’s why I’m still here standing and trying to be firm. We don’t even know what will happen next and what would be the possible things that might happen in the near future yet I’m still hoping for the best thing to come along my way.

It’s so hard for me to accept the reality that there are certain things that we need to change. These things that we wanted to stay and last forever but the time is trying to keep us away from it. If only we could make a way to change the sail of the wind and not to direct in a different way but we need to go along with the flow.

There are lots of questions in my mind that needed an answer. An answer that is so hard to accept. Why do we need to be in this place and why do we need to be in this way? The only answer that I know is that “God has a reason for everything”. I know He carries us whenever we stumble and fall. He might not see him but we could feel His presence. I know I can make these trials because you are always been there for me. You have the reason for this for me to be a better and God-fearing person as you like me to be. Oh God give me more strength and wisdom to be firm in this darkest hour of my life.

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Family Picture

Natatandaan ko pa nung elementary pa ako.Lahat ng classmates ko bago ang lahat ng gamit sa school.Palibhasa private school yung pinapasukan ko kaya almost lahat ng classmates ko mayayaman at may kakayahan na bumili ng mga mamahaling gamit.

Sa totoo lang naiinggit talaga ako…lahat ng uniform nila sobrang puti at bago samantalang ako yung dati ko pang uniform at pumuti lang sa pagkukula at sa sabong gamit ng aking ina.

Pati gamit nila sa school mahahalata mo na mamahalin yung notebook nila lahat ay may tatak at amoy bago samantalang yung sa akin yung pinagsamasamang lumang notebook last year na binalutan ng magandang palamuti para magmukhang bago.

Inggit na inggit ako sa classmate ko na 3 layers na pencil case yung tipong may pipindutin ka na button eh biglang lalabas yung sharpener or eraser sa pencil case,namumutawi ang lungkot sa aking mga mata sapagkat sa akin ay isang plastic na may zipper ang pencil case ko.

Sabi ng aking ina “Pencil lang naman ang ilalagay mo okey na yan masyadong mahal ang pencil case na sinasabi mo kulang na tayo sa budget”,

Lalo ko talaga naramdaman ang pagkaiinggit ng makita ko aking mga clasmate na ang gamit nilang bag ay may stroller sa likod,pink ang kulay at barbie ang design samantalang ako ay isang lumang bag walang gulong sabi ng aking ina pwede pa naman daw yun kasi wala pa naman na butas.

Habang busy ako sa kakatingin at pagkukumpara sa mga bagay na wala ako na meron sila biglang dumating ang aking english teacher.

“Good Morning Ms. Dimatulac” sabay sabay na bigkas ng aking kamag-aral.

Dahil nga sa naglalakbay ang aking diwa di ko na namalayan na uwian na palaLahat ng classmate ko  ay sabay sabay ng tumayo at lumisan sa klase buti na lamang ay tumingin ako sa pisara sapagkat may homework pala kami.

HOMEWORK:

1.Please bring your family picture

2.Answer page 3-5 of your English Skillbook

Lahat ng mga clasmate ko ay nagmamadaling tumatakbo hilahila ang kanilang stroller na bag habang ako naman ay nagmumuni hanngang sa nakita ko ang aking ina nakangiti sa akin habang nag-aabang sa waiting area ng school.

Pagdating ko sa bahay agad-agad akong humingi ng family picture sa aking ina.Nagtataka ako bakit kailangan ng aking guro ang mga ito.Binuksan ko ang pahina ng libro at ang una kong nakita ay

“———–HOME——–HOUSE——–”

“DRAW YOUR HOUSE”

Sa murang isip ang unang pumasok sa isip ko ay “Teka parehas lang naman yun di ba?”

Kaya naman agad agad kung hinanap si MR. Webster Dictionary

HOUSE- \ˈhau̇s\noun a building that serves as living quarters for one or a few families

HOME \ˈhōm\ noun the social unit formed by a family living together

“Aaaahhhhh yun pala ang pagkakaiba nun, akala ko ay parehas lang sila.Pero pano yun ang liit lang naman nag bahay namin parang bahay kubo lang.”

Kinabukasan,balik eskwelahan ulit kami.
Tulad ng dati malungkot nanaman ako na tumungo sa aming silid aralan iniisip ang homework na drawing.

Nagsimula na ang klase,lahat ng mga classmates ko pinakita ang kanilang drawing sa harap ng klase.

Si Raissa na pinakamayaman sa klase ang unang nagtaas ng kamay.As usual, pinakita muna niya ang maganda nyang bahay kahit na drawing bata lang ang drawing nya makikita mo talaga na napakayaman nya may malaking garden sila at up and down na bahay may swimming pool pa sila.Lalo akong naiingit sa kanya at nahiya sa drawing kong bahay kubo sa isang coupon bond.Nang matapos na niya ipakita ang napakalaking bahay nila agad namang hinanap ng guro ang kanyang family picture.May ngilid na luha na pinakita ni Raissa ang picture at tinuro ang kanyang mommy at daddy…sabi nya namimiss na nya ang kanyang daddy.Nalaman na lang namin na nasa abroad pala ang kanyang daddy.

Naantig aking puso sa sinabi ni Raissa.Bigla kong napaisip.Nagulat na lamang ako ng narinig ko ang aking pangalan na tinawag ng aking guro.Ako na pala susunod na magpresent.

Agad agad ako na tumayo sa harapan pinakita ang hawak na drawing ng aming bahay.Hindi na ako nagtakataka sa mga reaksyon ng aking classmates.Lahat sila ay halos gusto ng humagikhik sa tawa.Nanliit ako at halos gusto ng malusaw sa harapan.Nababasa ko sa ang kanilang nasa isip.Natatawa sila sapagkat halos bahay kubo lang ang bahay namin di kasing laki ng kay Raissa. Di ko pinansin ang kanilang mga reaksyon datapwat ipinakita ko na lamang ang family picture namin.

Biglang lumakas ang aking loob ng makita ko ang aming family picture.Naalala ko ang aking mapagmahal na ama,ang pagmamahal na binibigay ng aking ina.Ang aking mga kapatid na kahit minsa’y asot pusa na nagaaway ay nagmamahalan pa rin.Ang pagsabay sabay na kumain sa hapag kainan. Ang himig ng musika na galing sa aming puso na maririnig sa aming bahay kubo.Bigla na lamang akong napangiti at sinabi :

“This is my family picture.You might laugh at my previous drawing of our house because it seems so small.We dont have big and beautiful house
like yours because we are not wealthy but I could proudly say that I have my family to build a home.A home that gives me a real happiness and wealth”

Biglang pumalakpak ang english teacher ko.First time ko na naramdaman na umangat ako sa mayayaman ko na classmates.Lahat sila nagpalakpakan.

Nang matapos na ang aming english class,kaagad ako na tumungo sa aking ina na nasa waiting area tsaka ko lamang naobserbahan na ang lagi palang sumusundo sa pinakamayaman ko na classmate na si Raissa ay ang kanyang yaya sapagkat busy lagi ang kanyang mommy.Bigla ko na lamang hinagkan ang aking ina at nagpasalamat ng lihim.

Napagtanto ko na di ko pala kailangan ng bagong uniform,amoy bagong notebook, 3 layers na pencil case,pink barbie na stroller na bag at isang napakalaking bahay na may second floor with garden and swimming pool.Hindi lang pala material na bagay ang nagpapaligaya sa buhay nang tao at sukatan ng pagigigng mayaman.Minsan kahit ang simpleng pagmamahal ng isang pamilya  ay isang natatanging yaman na di mapapalitan ng kahit anong ginto sa mundong ibababaw.

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